The way to success in working with those who live with a disability is simply to be with them in each and every moment we can. Yet, as simple as this notion is it seems so hard to achieve for those whose work is to do just that.
In a culture where it seems people are on a constant search for diversion around every corner,it appears like we are trying to get away, From what? I am not sure. How often have you seen those called staff walking one hundred yards ahead of an individual they should be supporting. Is it that they are uncomfortable or embarassed to be with the individual, do they not know what to do, do they lack training and guidence from those who are charged with provinding it? I think its all of the above and more. We need to think of the possibilities and not the roadblocks. We need to celebrate small successes with those we provide services and supports for. We need to avoid the diversion and strongly hug the moment and enjoy it.
We now have many tools to divert us from being fully with those we serve such as computers, cell phones, ipod's all designed to help us communicate better, but not always, as we ignore those we should be talking to face to face. Reports are required yet time is short, but everytime we choose the computer over those we serve, we are guilty of neglect, as we are not attending to the person we should be attending to. Diversion is safe and allows us more and more time not to do our jobs and avoid the real hard work of being creative, caring and yes in the moment, fully paying attention to the needs we have been hired to meet.
Look away from the screen and get focused. Its a win- win for all.
Be proud and serve.
JBG
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